Do you look at fashion magazines and simply want to cry? Do you ask yourself questions like, "Why can't I look like those models?" or "Why can't the magazines ever print photographs of women who aren't slender?" Maybe you have tried every diet in the books. Perhaps you have lost and gained the same pounds over and over again. While you realize that you want to be healthy, and you're still working on that, perhaps you have also decided to embrace the possibility that you will never be a "Skinny Minnie."
With that in mind, perhaps you have decided to embrace your body type and make the most of it. Here are some ideas that might help you.
Focus On Your Best Assets - Do you know that you have gorgeous eyes? If so, give them full attention and make them stand out. Maybe you feel like you have pretty feet and hands. If that's the case, keep them well manicured and as often as you can, wear shoes that show off those beautiful toes. If you are tall, take advantage of that, and decide that you will walk like a queen. If you are short, that means you can wear sexy high heels well, right?
And, really, will you please stop making excuses for your plus-size body? Forget sharing your latest weight loss plans. Instead, just look your best and let your lovely personality shine. Let people think things like, "That is one adorable gal!" Focus on just being happy.
Shop For Lingerie - Whether you are married, whether you have a special man in your life, or whether you are single, start with buying beautiful plus-size lingerie. Doesn't feeling sexy make you feel more feminine? If you have a sweetheart, they will probably delight in the fact that you're not wearing the usual T-shirt and sweats that you feel will hide your body. Instead, they will probably flip out at how lovely you look wearing lingerie, and it may give them some fun ideas.
Do you want a classic look in lingerie? In that case, consider buying a beautiful long nightgown in your favorite color. Maybe you want seductive lingerie. Go for it! Plus-size lingerie comes in so many different designs that you will want to spend your entire paycheck on it. The bonus is that you can find lingerie that will flatter you without breaking the bank.